Sooner or later, both parents and teachers face the problem of sex education. That is, what concerns the relations between the two sexes. And this is exactly what the word ”sex” refers to the existence and relationship of both genders. It is used 1) for explaining the concept of biological identity: Male-Female 2) for explaining the concept: of attraction between the two sexes.
Sexology as a science deals with all this. We can turn to sexology to get informed, be advised, or even find a cure for certain disorders.
Unfortunately, the background of the past was transferred to the generation of the present, attributing to the word ”sex” the burden of filth and filled us with anxiety, guilt, confusion, and uncertainty. This confusion is depicted by the fact that there is a lack of proper vocabulary, a vocabulary that will answer children’s questions. This picture is not very happy, but it’s not hopeless. Sex is an unlimited opportunity as an expression of the capacity for love.
We all want to teach children to, first of all, accept and love themselves exactly as they are. Then we want them to understand the concept of love with other people. In other words, we are interested not only in their physical or spiritual development but, above all, in their emotional well-being for their complete balance.
Home is where all emotions are first tested, and kids ask a lot. What we will say and the extent to which we will analyze the answer depends on how the question will be asked, depending on the kid’s age. The questions children ask about sex are something normal, like when they ask about a toothache. As the child gets older, its development continues, so the questions will continue to take place. At each age, the child will ask different things.
Many parents will answer: “I’ll tell you when you grow up.” In this case, the child senses that no one can speak freely about such things. They conclude that something unusual is hidden here, something that is unpleasant, ugly, or ” immoral “, as the grown-ups say. Later, growing up, they will do their own research in books.
Another common mistake is that of changing the conversation. When a child arrives with a question, they want the truth; more than that, they want to know what you believe and feel. They come to you because they trust you. They love you and want to look like you. They prove this externally by copying you. The same thing happens internally. The same happens in the invisible region of emotions.
These questions of children about sexuality are often asked in a strange way, and sometimes, for us grown-ups, they come as a shock because we are unprepared. For the success of this dialogue and the proper use of answers, parents should first eliminate all hesitation and prejudice. Parents and adults should choose the best method available, and this is no other than discussion. Speak freely, as naturally as you would speak on any other question. Yes, but how is this achieved? Very often, the parents ask, “How can I talk about sex normally? “or “In what way can I chat more comfortably with my children?” The secret?

1. Be good listeners. It is very important to know what the child is asking at the specific moment and answer exactly to it.
2. Communicate with them as straight as you can.
3. Encourage them to say what they think. Simply ask: What do you believe?
4. Bring your answer to the level of children’s experiences and understanding.
5. Be honest and consistent over time. Trying to answer typical questions of a 3-year-old will lead you to talk about “the bird that puts the seed in the nest.” As the child grows up, you can use different vocabulary that the child understands
6. If you are the parents of the child, make sure you tell the same story. Both parents can have different opinions, and they are welcome to express them, but when it comes to explaining the biology of sex, they should be on the same page so as not to confuse the child.
7. Be yourself. There is no need to pretend to be wise. Anyway, sooner or later, the child will find out that you are not always right.
8. Always remember: From each conversation, the child will gain only as much as they are prepared to gain in the given moment.

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