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反刍是为了更好地消化

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source link: https://www.barretlee.com/blog/2022/05/16/yfbkwm/
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反刍是为了更好地消化

作者: Barret李靖 2022-05-16 12:54:28 分类: 观点和感想 标签: 小胡子哥的碎语 评论数:

热爱争论的人可以分为两类,一类是期望通过争论来完善自己的理论,另外一类是享受争论的过程。第二类人,不要和他争论,你争得面红耳赤,他却乐在其中。

表达固然重要,但更重要的是倾听。聊完之后,赶紧忘记自己说过的话,回到对方的语境之中,理解了对方的观点以后,再把自己讲过的东西捡回来。反刍的作用就是更充分地吸收营养。


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